Quote From: hijeanMy longtime boyfriend and I have regular threesomes with other females. I am physically bi-sexual and am attracted to females and enjoy sex with other females. I get turned on watching lesbian pornography and at times threesomes pornography. We find that inviting other females (sometimes more than one female) spices up our sex life. I am a very secure woman and my boyfriend treats me amazingly and assures me that it is just a physical thing with other females. I know he would never leave me and we sort of think of other girls that we have sex with as "sex toys" that spice up our life.
As in the questions "what's in it for me?" As I said before I enjoy sex with other females. I also enjoy and get turned on being a voyeur and watching my boyfriend engaged in sexual activities with other women. Part of the pleasure is looking at his facial expressions and getting to "join in" whenever I want. Almost as if I'm watching my own live "porn." Yes not many people are going to agree or understand my views, but as I have found, there is also a big community who totally understands and have similar views to me.
Thank you! Though not a swinger, I find it appalling that so many people are so unreasonable on this issue. Throughout history, many people have had multiple relationships. People in the U.S. believe that our modern social mores were always the rule of law or ethics. Not even close. You sound mature and self-confident, something that is obviously lacking in the responses of others.
