Quote From: wyatt036Oh I understand, that your view of sex is different from mine. You mean to tell me that sex is spiritual and emotional. Obviously, you have never seen anything different. What happened in the Roman and Greek Empire does not apply to my life in any way shape or form. Please explain to me how the fall of an Empire in ancient history will determine what happends in my life? IF my "empire" were to fall apart, it would not be because of sex, it would be because my husband and I made CHOICES and we made those choices fully understanding the consequenses of those choices.
Sex, yes, is just an act and if you think it is anything different, why don't you spend your time with someone who has been sexually assaulted or with someone who has sexually assaulted another. I am sure they will tell you that sex is not spiritual or emotional, they will tell you it is an act. Because I hear them say it everyday. I am glad that in your "empire" sex is emotional and spiritiual, but not everyone lives in your utopia.
Although, I would like to believe that sex SHOULD be emotional and spiritual, it is not always. When my husband and I have sex, yes it is emotional and spiritual. When we have sex with others, there is no emotional bond there and it is just an act between two people who are mutually attracted to eachother and who happen to effect each other chemically. Since we know that getting aroused is a chemcial reaction and not an emotional or spiritual one.
Again, you have just explained what we already know about why you are swinging. I am sure you realize that "being raped" was not what we were discussing. Please don't twist things around to suit your opinion.
