Quote From: juzzabooMy boyfriend which is my baby daddy is African American and he is from th north side of tulsa which is the bad side of tulsa that is majorly African American. There are gangs and shootings and moms pushing a stroller in 30 degree weather there and who would think a nice man like him would come out of that kind of place. In his family everyone looks up to the grandparents and to elders are very respected. They were raise to respect there selves and have pride in the family and not embarrass the family. They were taught to make something of themselves and prove that someone out of that environment can make it in life without being in a gang. How a family is raised there is by the family not just the parents so when a kid goes to school the represent a family and how the present themselves the men in his family can wear baggy pants as long as the boxers are not showing they have to wear a belt and believe me if they are at a family gathering and a elder finds you with your pants low they will pull them down and embarrass you and then they will tie a rope around you to keep your pants on and then you get made fun of the remainder of the day and you don't want to make grandma mad in the family. Grandmas run the family if she catches you, well you might as well leave and come back next family gathering. Also in school they hope you do a good job my man graduate with honors and the president of his class and all around sportsmen He came to the top and made a good name for the family. So I do Say it is not respectful for yourself or the people around to present yourself like that it just gives you a title and why would you want a title why don't you want to make something of yourself and show that you have over came something of living in such a run down part of a town and that you concurred life!
If "Baby Daddy" is such a fine person, why is he still in school and not out working to provide support. Who is feeding and housing all of these accidental children, me and my truly outstanding sons, who work hard, pay a lot of taxes and do not make babys for other people to care for and support? You say Grandma runs the family, In all but scum families, there are parents to run them and Grandparents to visit it they are still living. If Grandma raised her own children right rather than pawn them off on her own mother, she has done her work. Who ever enjoys the roll in the hay, should take care of the offspring. That means provide for the physical care as well as the necessary money.
Government should not have to legislate adult men pulling up their pants and covering their rear end. If that is the part of themselves they want to show off because it is the part of themselves they are most proud of , remember everybody has a butt and they all look similar. The world would be a lot better off if everyone would get their mind out of thier pants and learn to read, get a job, a hobby, play a sport. Do something besides procreate "accidental offspring" for others to have to support by lowering our standard of living to pay the ever rising taxes take care of your responsibilities.
