raymom5,
The very first question I need to ask you is who died and made you God? I guess you think you are as you seem to think that you have the power to judge.
How is it that you assume that you have the answers to all life has to offer?
Now for the next two things I must ask you since you have boasted your make believe superior intellect. Please define what Crazy and Stupid are?
Interesting thing is how some of the people here that want to slam swingers have to say about confusing sex and love. When I read through some of these comments I can’t help but wonder if some of you know the difference between the two as it becomes clear that you may be confused as you tend to link sex as a dependency for your love.
Now I am going to reach out to all of you for some simple advice. Can somebody please help me understand why it is so many people that want to demand that only their views, beliefs, and perception of how the world should be is the only acceptable path for humanity. Perhaps if we could all just love one another and stop scolding people because we are all different the world would become a more peaceful place for all of us to get along and live happy.
Last I checked this is the United States of America land of the free.
For the people that have monogamy marriages and are perfectly happy with them I say that is great. More power to you. If it works then stick to it. But please do not assume that is the only way a marriage should be and that us swingers are wrong for what we do. As long as consenting adults agree to do something and it’s behind closed doors and it’s not hurting anyone else then why does it matter?
The challenge we have with society is that we are so opinionated and that is ok as long as we are also open-minded and accept that different people have different opinions.
What it all really comes down to and I realize this may be a little deep for some is our fundamental perception of what we call reality. We all perceive the world differently and paint a picture of what we deem reality to be. That is ok providing we can respect other people’s perceptions. If we were to IN FACT get down to the nuts and bolts of what reality really is most of us would have a very hard time even wanting to grasp it. Reality is something my friends has to with quantum physics and subatomic particles vibrating at ultra high frequencies that make up all that is including YES you. Nothing in this world is really solid. But the way we perceive these things makes them appear to be such. Now some of us that are tuned a little differently tend to look at our existence a little bit differently. By the time our minds process all the information all around us and we conclude what we believe our reality to be; is it any wonder why there is often a shift between us all and conflict occurs.
The fundamental key to our survival as a humans as well as for our planet as a whole is for us to begin to recognize that we are unique and perceive the world differently. When we can all just recognize and respect this about one another the world will be a happier place to live and as an added bonus you to will be much happier and more than likely live a longer healthier life. Or should I say lifestyle. Wink wink:-)
Once again swinging is not for everyone. Relationships have to be strong and on the highest level of intimacy for it to be successful. If you’re not sure be sure or don’t do it. For us real experienced swingers we are sure of ourselves and our relationships and that is why we can do what we do.
