As sure as I am about knowing who holds my tomorrow, (God), I knew that Pandoras box had been opened when they began to create laws against those who smoke. I don't smoke now, but have in the past, still, their rights, just like those of Christians in schools and various PUBLIC places, have been quelled IN order that others may NOT be offended. So some are happy because laws have been altered to appease those with different views, but, it comes at the cost of anothers freedom and rights. That my friends, is not a solution, it is a diterent, a (bandaid), if you will, on a gaping wound.
Firstly everyone knows this occurance is timeless, and not new. I have 2 sons in their late 20's, and from time to time, I have noticed their attire a lil' looser than when I was a kid, and yet, somehow, they managed to grow into mature young men, each with 2 kids, and each hard working, kind, caring young men who are valuable and viable to their families and to society, thank God. I believe that the look CAN conjure up myths and misconceptions in OUR minds about their character, however, if we formulate opinions about anyone before we know them, then we are being judgemental. I suppose thugs CAN dress this way, but that may be only because it is the hip way to dress, they may want to be trendy ??
I do know this issue was around waaaay before now, if you don't believe me, ask any cholo. That word, cholo, is a tex-mex slang for a rebel, who in some instances were also thuggish back in the day. They would wear the white ribbed tanks, they go by another name I choose not to perpetuate, and they would wear BAGGY khaki pants, no belts, bandanas, slicked hair back, sometimes use hairnets and dark glasses, sound familiar?? That was back in the 50's, 60's and 70's There is truly nothing new under the sun..
The point is this, like it or not, we can NOT start to police anyone for what they wear, for then it will not end. Then, mark my words, next will be the food police ordering us what, where and how to eat, we are pretty close on that one already. I believe if we try to remember we are not alone in this world, and that everything we say and do, DOES affect the world around us, perhaps we can be less self serving and more self giving, as in respect. Thank you.....