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You know i was raised in a religious home and to me being part of the life style doesn't go against my beliefs, God or what ever name you want to call the higher power made every single person and made their faults including the need for Swinging.

Its not adultery to me if he comes home to me every night, he has a set of rules, I have a set of rules, if either of them breaks the rules then thats comes into Adultery.

Its is said that only 5% of North Americans understand the swinging lifestyle and are comfortable to take part in it. That means if I pick up a Man in a bar i have to tell him that I am in a committed relationship and make sure he is okay with this. If he isn't he can go his merry little way.  We have the rule that he has to come home every night as well as me for the children, she doesn't need to know, but if she ever asks we will tell her and not hide it from her. Its all in education when it comes to children not hiding and treating it like a taboo.

Not many species of animals are Monogamous, and the two that evolution says we are part of their chain are some of the worst, sowing their seeds wherever they can. So dont judge, you don't even need to know what people are doing, its their bedroom and who are you to judge what they decide to do in there. If it makes them happy let them be happy, its not breaking any laws.