Quote From: playfullcoupleYou know, you simply are not the 10% it works for. Romantic attatchment does not happen for the people that are truely secure i ntheir relationships. this is not for eveyone and no one should pretend it is. Simply know, that for those of us it works for, it really works well. We have met couples that try to split us up or steal one of us away, we simply laugh it off and move on.
And as far as satisfying my wife or me more, taht is simply physical. No one could ever satisfy me emotionaly like my wife. There is a vast differnce between making love and having sex. And so what if the guy is bigger then me....it sounds like you have more issues with your self esteem and confidence and that might be the issue that worries you. I am not he biggest stick o nthe bench, but I do play hard when I am on the ice...ok, sorry Canadian with a hockey metaphore...LOL
I have no worries or confidence issues. I have and can please many girls, but i am not for all and that is the way it goes. So if I can give my wife alarger man with differnt aproaches and sensations, it is no differnt then buying a sex toy.
Just remeber, we don't judge you for being religious or in your beliefs. remeber, a vast majority of swingers start becasue of bi-sexual feeligns in one party, and it goes from there. Bi-sexuality is no differnt the Homosexuality, yet it is frowned on and even treated as a desease. My Wife got this from a religious leader. So to say the least, we no longer look for aproval from nay organized religion. How can one say hat Homosexuality is aceptable, but bi-sexuality is not.
Please do not judge, simply know that people do differnt hings in there bed room and it is their right and privlidge to do this and NO one has the right to tell us it is wrong or degenerate.
