I'm not judging anyone, I am speaking from experience. I think that these people that say that swinging helps their marriage is full of bologna. I lived this and it was like a soap opera. Everyone we met during this had in some form or fashion had problems. Jealousy, just like the first couple, the wife made sure that she picked women she knew her husband would not be interested in. Well duh. That is human nature. My gosh I'll be the first to admit, I'd be jealous to for my husband to had been with some little barbie doll. Who are we kidding here. Also what dr. phil said. If you want to be single be single, but lets not set up housekeeping and help each other will bills and bring kids into the world and then lets go out here on weekends or whenever and go play the single life on the side. Marriage is sacred, and I stepped over that line as well as he did, and I could hit myself daily with the choice I made. I feel like a total mess, and a failure as a wife and a mother due to this decision I will have to live with. I'm thinking of trying very hard to be what God intened me to be. We are not dogs, if thats the case hold a swinging party in the back yard and go at it. How weird is that. sorry not a judgment my opinion but it did not work for me.
