Quote From: tiffany_2007I'm not assuming they do have problems, just pointing out that you shouldn't assume they don't have problems, every couple has there problems, and since you didn't know about them being swingers how can you know thy have the perfect marriage?
What does having the perfect marriage have to do with swinging? I do know my swinging friends don't have the kind of problems that the couples on the Dr Phil show had.
Do you have a perfect marriage? Does anybody?
It would seem to me, though, that a relationship that allows couples to explore and indulge ALL they're sexual fantasies would probably be be relationship where the participants are predisposed to "not sweat the small stuff" what ever that may be, in that relationship and therefore be happier individuals in that relationship.
One poster, a few days back, explained it really good. It takes a certain personality to be able to "swap" and not view it as something wrong or deviant and evil.
A long time ago, my friends in Germany reminded me how prudent people in America are. So, I soppose, most of what is posted on the topic doesn't surprise me.
