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This is horribly embarrasing to write about.  

My husband and I have been married for over 2 years, we've been together for four years. 

A couple of weeks ago, he got way more adventerous in bed and wanted me to use a dildo on him. 

When he squeezed his eyes shut and told me I was in the  "wrong" place, I was horrified.  He then moved my hand up about an inch and a half or so to the "right" place. 

Now, please excuse my ignorance, but as a woman who has had previous partners who have targeted the "wrong" place and had to correct them myself,  what does this mean? 

I mean, I thought I was smart till my husband told me I was trying in the wrong place.  

I was only aware of ONE place on a man that a dildo could possibly go...