Replies to '02/04 Dirty Little Secrets'

What the hell is a matter with people these days? I have been married to the same man for 26 yrs. I have been with him for 28 yrs. We still have a wonderful marriage. We are just as much in love today as ever before, if not more. Now I am not saying that everything in our marriage is daisies and roses, its certainly isn't. However, that is what a real marriage is about. Loving and Trusting your partner enough to honor the vows you two took and shared the day you said I DO. People these days get married with thought in their heads that... "Oh well I can always get a divorce". I get up everyday knowing that life is going to throw you curves and stress. But I aslo get up everyday thanking the good lord for the blessing he gave me when I met my husband. Even at the roughest times in our marriage I never questioned is love or is fidelity. I did sometimes question where the hell is head was!! LOL. People if your considering getting married.. please don't do it if you think that you can change him, or things will be better once your married or have children. Only get married if you know that your relationship can't possibly be any better than it is a this moment. Then your marrying for the right reasons. And for god sake if you find out the man you married has other wifes and children past or present you were never told about, then stop and take a good look at your life, and ask your self if this marriage is one of honesty and trust. If the answer is no, then I would say its not a marriage and you should get out as fast as you can. You deserve to be in a honest and trustworthy marriage, not one built on  lies and deciet.