Quote From: bluhrigDarren, never buys gifts or cards. She says he told her he loved her when they got married, and he'll "let her know if it changes!
This is just plain mean. It sounds as if he's chuckling to himself at having bested her. I wonder if he acts in a loving way? No love talk during sex?
We were married 5 years and hubby came in with roses and I said " what did you do wrong?" I was right he had gotten a speeding ticket. A dozen roses were always expensive that money went towards a house for us to buy. Mothers day I got flowers to put in the yard. When we got our own house it was a rose or something else that returned every year.
We both had a previous marriage and they ran on us, so to have a husband that came home and for him to have a wife waiting for him and taking care of our sons and enjoying our family not needing to go out drinking every chance, finding babysitters. priorities people. He loved me enough to come home everynight and show me his love I in return was able to return that.. A bunch of roses or cards donot prove love. ACTIONS DO........ He will never win any prizes as a romantic and I accept that. But when I had cancer he was there. He took care of me he shielded me protected me. HE LOVED ME. He saw me through my stemcell transplant. He cooked for me, healthy food, did my laundry, encouraged me every step I was able to take alone. Or I could have roses??? ... Think not... Jan
