Quote From: sunnydazedThese are supposed ADULTS.
I'm so tired of cheaters, liars, immoral, unethical actions being labeled as having an "illness" or "addiction". Bullcrap. There's no "sexual addiction". Society lets people off the hook way too easily with those labels. What has happened to actions equal consequences? Respect & self-respect? Common sense? Does anyone know what just plain common sense is anymore??
Character flaws are no excuses. People still know right from wrong. They just don't care until they get caught. Then they go on TV & let a few tears flow.
What are potential spouses supposed to do...run a background check on their fiance to be sure of the truth?? How sad is that?
My mom didn't have the best childhood, I believe she was abused more than I know & my dad's dad passed away when he was just a boy. They recently celebrated 46 years of marriage & lovingly raised two kids. CHOICES, people. At some point, we become adults & then what we do with our lives & to others' lives are our own.
Marriage is being turned into a joke. People forget, or more likely don't care or want to remember, the definitions of the words commitment, honor, trust, love... This is what happens in a society that is becoming more & more liberal. It's not your fault, you must be sick. Don't judge anyone, nothing anyone does is wrong, if it feels good; do it...
Grow up. Wise up. Man (or woman) up & behave as a respectable adult.
See...this is what I keep saying, too.
No one wants to hear the truth...when you speak it, you are called "judgmental". My response to that is "Darn right! Everything everyone wants to do in NOT okay when it affects the rest of society. If being judgmental is wrong, then let's just abolish all laws and the courts and let everyone run wild, huh!"
Now, that makes just as much sense as saying no one should judge another person.
I don't want to the world I live in to decline any more.....and it will if good people continue to say nothing and are afraid to speak out for fear of being called "judgmental". Who cares?? Speak out!
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