Quote From: andievillaMy spouse and I were watching your show and I felt that Grant was misunderstood. Yes, he did have some very distorted ways of dealing with his wife. But I feel that him asking her to dress seductively was something he would like in moderation. I don't believe he wants her to dress seductively every day. As someone who deals with people, and as a man it surprises me that you did get that. I feel he was reprimanded for his poor choice of dealing with his wife, but the focus I think he wanted was her organization. Yes she has kids, so do many women, part of his struggle in his day with the kids was the organization of the kitchen. If things were already orderly then perhaps both of their days would be easier. I don't think she was quite the "victim" she made herself out to be. Some of the arguments made were minimal but valid. If you could, look at a different perspective with this couple. No he should not grade her cooking, but yes a cabinet full of papers is unnecessary. I feel that it was somewhat one sided, and Grant deserves a good lesson, but also a chance to have some of what he's asking for to be heard.
I don't need breast implants or a french maid costume for my husband to think I'm sexy. We've been happily married for 21 years, and he has never once suggested plastic surgery (even though at this age I'm considering it). How could anyone think that you could take that beaten down, depressed woman and dress her in porn star clothes and make her feel sexy? He didn't CARE how she felt, he just cared how she looked. Any women will be wa-a-a-ay sexier when her husband makes her feel loved and accepted.
With respect to the household organizsation, I agree that they needed to do it but I don't see what Grant's problem was. Organize it! I love it when my cleaning lady has reorged all my cupboards! It's heaven for a while.
