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October 10, 2005, 4:27 pm PDT
ATear for You
Quote From: speedy210I have been married twice and after becoming a widow I learned one thing. I am me. This is how I look and act and these are the things I do and like to do. To change any of that is to say that you don't want me. Making sure the person in your life is not trying to change you is very important. The important thing is to find out before you get married. If they want you to change anything tell them to go find the person they are looking for. I spent a lot of time trying to live up to what my husband's wanted and it was impossible. I know someone in your exact circumstance. And that is so true. Don't marry someone who keeps trying to change you. So glad you shared that with others. People need to know ahead of time what some of us learn the hard way. Thanks.
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