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February 9, 2008, 4:46 pm PST

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I have  a friend of  3 years  that I recently  found out  everything this person has  ever told me  are  lies .  and  I am  NOT referring to  LITTLE WHITE   LIES  NO ,  I  an  talking about something  that would of totally devestated   her  whole family ,  had this been  true . 

 

1st.  she told me  ,  HER  DAUGHTER  ,  4 year old  grand daughter , and 2 month old  baby grand daughter   were involved  in a  head on collision  in Mobile  , Alabama ,  which  she  also said  the only survivor was the 4 year old  .   THE  TRUTH  IS  :  the  2  month old  baby  grand daughter is  the only  one that DID NOT  survive  .

 

 2nd,   She told me  she  was fighting her  2nd.  cnacer .  1st. was  ovaian  cancer  and  NOW  Stomach  cancer  .  In conversation  between her  husband and Mine  ,  my husband  was told NONE  of  this  was true .       WHY do  people  do this ?   I  feel like  such  a gullable  idiot  for believing  it all .    YOU can  e-mail  me  @   cajunlizz0315@cox.net  ,  or  post reply in here

She wants attention. That's what lairs do they lie to get attention. My ex lied about alot of things and till today lies to get attention from other women. so they feel sorry for hhim and they will give him sex and attention. Just let her know that it's okay that she doesn't have to lie for you to be her friend. She is maybe in denial about the baby. Try to get her to loosen up around you. maybe she'll stop the lying.
 
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February 23, 2008, 10:44 am PST

SIMPLY CAN NOT BELEIVE THIS

Quote From: cajunlizz0315

I have  a friend of  3 years  that I recently  found out  everything this person has  ever told me  are  lies .  and  I am  NOT referring to  LITTLE WHITE   LIES  NO ,  I  an  talking about something  that would of totally devestated   her  whole family ,  had this been  true . 

 

1st.  she told me  ,  HER  DAUGHTER  ,  4 year old  grand daughter , and 2 month old  baby grand daughter   were involved  in a  head on collision  in Mobile  , Alabama ,  which  she  also said  the only survivor was the 4 year old  .   THE  TRUTH  IS  :  the  2  month old  baby  grand daughter is  the only  one that DID NOT  survive  .

 

 2nd,   She told me  she  was fighting her  2nd.  cnacer .  1st. was  ovaian  cancer  and  NOW  Stomach  cancer  .  In conversation  between her  husband and Mine  ,  my husband  was told NONE  of  this  was true .       WHY do  people  do this ?   I  feel like  such  a gullable  idiot  for believing  it all .    YOU can  e-mail  me  @   cajunlizz0315@cox.net  ,  or  post reply in here

  I can not  beleive that I  ONLY  GOT  1   REPLY    after  pouring out  my heart  about  a  friend that  said  she  LOST  A  DAUGHTER  AND A   2  MONTH OLD  GRAND DAUGHTER  in a  WRECK .      "  JUST  1  reply " .  I  really thought I  could  turn  to  these  message boards for  a  little  help  and   support . 
 
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June 6, 2008, 8:44 pm PDT

Being a Good Friend

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I have  a friend of  3 years  that I recently  found out  everything this person has  ever told me  are  lies .  and  I am  NOT referring to  LITTLE WHITE   LIES  NO ,  I  an  talking about something  that would of totally devestated   her  whole family ,  had this been  true . 

 

1st.  she told me  ,  HER  DAUGHTER  ,  4 year old  grand daughter , and 2 month old  baby grand daughter   were involved  in a  head on collision  in Mobile  , Alabama ,  which  she  also said  the only survivor was the 4 year old  .   THE  TRUTH  IS  :  the  2  month old  baby  grand daughter is  the only  one that DID NOT  survive  .

 

 2nd,   She told me  she  was fighting her  2nd.  cnacer .  1st. was  ovaian  cancer  and  NOW  Stomach  cancer  .  In conversation  between her  husband and Mine  ,  my husband  was told NONE  of  this  was true .       WHY do  people  do this ?   I  feel like  such  a gullable  idiot  for believing  it all .    YOU can  e-mail  me  @   cajunlizz0315@cox.net  ,  or  post reply in here

Well first I do not like liars.  I don't understand how it is so hard to just tell the truth.  I mean I know people don't tell the truth on EVERYTHING but to just make up lies is crazy! 

 

 

The car wreck thing, maybe she is just having a very hard time dealing with this.  I have a aunt that lost her son, his wife, and her grandson that was only 6 months in a car wreck.  She has never been the same.  Sometimes people that go through something so traumatic that they change and nobody will ever understand them.  My aunt will never be the same.  She also lost her dad about two months before this plus a nephew that she was extremely close with about the same time.  It all happened within a 4 month period.  We will never know why people do things that they do when they experience something like this.  Is this woman seeing someone?  Does her husband know what she is doing and how does he deal with this?

 

 

The whole thing with the cancer.  Well maybe she wants something bad to happen to her that will cause her to die.  Some people can't deal with a loss of so extreme.  Maybe she just don't want to live and in her mind that is her way of dealing with things.  I know it sounds crazy but we will never understand.  Even people that have been through the same thing may not understand her because we all deal with grief the same way.  I hope that this will maybe help in some way.  I hope she gets to feeling better and stops with the lies.  Hope all goes well with you and hopefully you can find it in yourself to just listen to her lies and maybe you can help her one day. 

 


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