Quote From: cajunlizz0315I have a friend of 3 years that I recently found out everything this person has ever told me are lies . and I am NOT referring to LITTLE WHITE LIES NO , I an talking about something that would of totally devestated her whole family , had this been true .
1st. she told me , HER DAUGHTER , 4 year old grand daughter , and 2 month old baby grand daughter were involved in a head on collision in Mobile , Alabama , which she also said the only survivor was the 4 year old . THE TRUTH IS : the 2 month old baby grand daughter is the only one that DID NOT survive .
2nd, She told me she was fighting her 2nd. cnacer . 1st. was ovaian cancer and NOW Stomach cancer . In conversation between her husband and Mine , my husband was told NONE of this was true . WHY do people do this ? I feel like such a gullable idiot for believing it all . YOU can e-mail me @ cajunlizz0315@cox.net , or post reply in here
Well first I do not like liars. I don't understand how it is so hard to just tell the truth. I mean I know people don't tell the truth on EVERYTHING but to just make up lies is crazy!
The car wreck thing, maybe she is just having a very hard time dealing with this. I have a aunt that lost her son, his wife, and her grandson that was only 6 months in a car wreck. She has never been the same. Sometimes people that go through something so traumatic that they change and nobody will ever understand them. My aunt will never be the same. She also lost her dad about two months before this plus a nephew that she was extremely close with about the same time. It all happened within a 4 month period. We will never know why people do things that they do when they experience something like this. Is this woman seeing someone? Does her husband know what she is doing and how does he deal with this?
The whole thing with the cancer. Well maybe she wants something bad to happen to her that will cause her to die. Some people can't deal with a loss of so extreme. Maybe she just don't want to live and in her mind that is her way of dealing with things. I know it sounds crazy but we will never understand. Even people that have been through the same thing may not understand her because we all deal with grief the same way. I hope that this will maybe help in some way. I hope she gets to feeling better and stops with the lies. Hope all goes well with you and hopefully you can find it in yourself to just listen to her lies and maybe you can help her one day.