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July 20, 2008, 9:55 pm PDT
YOU SOUND LIKE CARRIES MOTHER ??
Quote From: jazminI hear so much of this happening these days, that I don't trust men at all. It is too bad but I don't like most of them and fear that they have one thing on their minds. I've never wanted children and never been pregnant by choice. I've never had the family abuse but I've seen how sick the world is and don't care to bring kids into it. I just refuse to deal with these same old problems. Your mother is insecure and has an awfully big ego and think that her husband thought of her while this was going on. I also think it's interesting that people demand one partner and their total loyalty, while in other ways they are no different than animals, and they probably met and based their relationship on sexual terms. Although I was married for 14 years, my husband had other priorities, which is why I married him. He had so many interests. I have been a widow and single since age 38, am now 51, have lived alone since then, and OK with it. I may find someone, but not more the most part excited about what is out there. To listen to you write I would swear that I was watching the movie "Carrie" from the 1970's. You seem to have a negative percetion of men that is __VERY__ close to Carries movie mother.Let me assure you that many loving,nuturing men exist in the world.Maybe you should get therapy to clear your contaminated psychological lense before you even consider selecting a male as a friend or lover.Did your mother speak about men in those negative terms ??
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