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March 3, 2008, 8:35 am PST
Sorry for you...
Quote From: muststartoverIt was somewhere around my 11th year of marriage that I found out my husband was on the interenet. It has been about 3.5 years, counseling services, and a lot of crying ago now. I have caught him 4 or 5 times on many dating sites and secret emails. What I have read and seen would blow your mind. This from a man that I was deeply in love with and thought I could trust! We are now getting our house ready to try to sell in this awful market so that we can divorce and move on. I am sad, but after much pleading with him I know now that he will never stop. I think, no, I know that I am over it all now. . I really want to send out a message to all women that what you see on these dating sites isn't always what you get. Over the years he has told these women that he was divorced. He has lied to them. I was sitting right here with him the entire time thinking we had this wonderful marriage and all along he was living another life.
So, women, beware! And men (im sure women do it too) just be careful out there.
As for me, if and when I am ready to date again after all this is over, I will never date a man that knows how to use a computer, let alone own one!
If you and your husband can possibly stand to hang onto the house till the market is better, I would find a way. With so many foreclosures out there, many people are getting less than assessed value and taking losses. Many houses are on the market for well over a year too. I know of some here in Ohio that have been for sale for 3+years.
As to your comments about the dating sites, amen. There's something fishy when you see thousands of eligible "bachelors" listed, but the numbers don't jive when you get statistics on married couples, total population, children in area, etc. There's a whole lotta lyin' goin' on!
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