Replies to 'How Porn Has Hurt Our Relationship'

I really want to establish that he is NOT a sex addict, he does NOT have an addiction to porn, and he is NOT cheating on me behind my back.

I don't think porn is okay in these situations:

1) When a guy looks at it so much that he expects real women to act, dress, and look like the porn stars that he is addicted to.

2) When a person has no relationships because they are too wrapped up in their porn, shutting out other people and things in their lives.

3) When it takes intimacy from relationships, like in some cases here on the forums.

4) When it's child porn. That reasoning should speak for itself. We do have permission to ask a customer to leave if they ask for anything like that. We don't carry it, we don't condone it, we will never do that.

I do think it's okay when:

1) When a couple likes watching it together, and both parties are okay with it, as long as they can also enjoy sex without it.

2) When a girlfriend/wife is okay with their other watching porn when it's not in excess and when it doesn't badly effect the relationship.

3) When a couple shops for it together and buys it as a special gift for eachother (that goes for any adult product)

My boyfriend does not have a problem with excessive MB. I didn't say he did. I also didn't say he was addicted to sex or porn.

What I am saying is that even though he has been true to his word and has not looked at porn since we did it together, I'm paranoid. I have no reason to be so. He is a good man, he's always been a good man. It makes me feel bad about myself that I'm so paranoid.

I really want to establish that he is NOT a sex addict, he does NOT have an addiction to porn, and he is NOT cheating on me behind my back.

I don't think porn is okay in these situations:

1) When a guy looks at it so much that he expects real women to act, dress, and look like the porn stars that he is addicted to.

2) When a person has no relationships because they are too wrapped up in their porn, shutting out other people and things in their lives.

3) When it takes intimacy from relationships, like in some cases here on the forums.

4) When it's child porn. That reasoning should speak for itself. We do have permission to ask a customer to leave if they ask for anything like that. We don't carry it, we don't condone it, we will never do that.

I do think it's okay when:

1) When a couple likes watching it together, and both parties are okay with it, as long as they can also enjoy sex without it.

2) When a girlfriend/wife is okay with their other watching porn when it's not in excess and when it doesn't badly effect the relationship.

3) When a couple shops for it together and buys it as a special gift for eachother (that goes for any adult product)

My boyfriend does not have a problem with excessive MB. I didn't say he did. I also didn't say he was addicted to sex or porn.

What I am saying is that even though he has been true to his word and has not looked at porn since we did it together, I'm paranoid. I have no reason to be so. He is a good man, he's always been a good man. It makes me feel bad about myself that I'm so paranoid.

I really want to establish that he is NOT a sex addict, he does NOT have an addiction to porn, and he is NOT cheating on me behind my back.

I don't think porn is okay in these situations:

1) When a guy looks at it so much that he expects real women to act, dress, and look like the porn stars that he is addicted to.

2) When a person has no relationships because they are too wrapped up in their porn, shutting out other people and things in their lives.

3) When it takes intimacy from relationships, like in some cases here on the forums.

4) When it's child porn. That reasoning should speak for itself. We do have permission to ask a customer to leave if they ask for anything like that. We don't carry it, we don't condone it, we will never do that.

I do think it's okay when:

1) When a couple likes watching it together, and both parties are okay with it, as long as they can also enjoy sex without it.

2) When a girlfriend/wife is okay with their other watching porn when it's not in excess and when it doesn't badly effect the relationship.

3) When a couple shops for it together and buys it as a special gift for eachother (that goes for any adult product)

My boyfriend does not have a problem with excessive MB. I didn't say he did. I also didn't say he was addicted to sex or porn.

What I am saying is that even though he has been true to his word and has not looked at porn since we did it together, I'm paranoid. I have no reason to be so. He is a good man, he's always been a good man. It makes me feel bad about myself that I'm so paranoid.