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Or worse than that- he could be modeling that behaviour and if the daughter isn't thn enough- then thinking she isn't pretty or good enough and turning to an eating disorder. How horrible would that be if he inadvertadly (sp?) caused his daughter to be bulimic or anorexic? And if he has a son, then he's teaching that boy that women are nothing more than arm-candy- how horrible would that be instead of meeting a deep, caring, fun and happy woman finding someone who fits the 'mold'. Aigh.

We had a Yankee family move in next door to us about 9 yrs ago and from the start he began trying to rule the neighborhood and me!  I am about 15 yrs his senior and am a Southern Christian gentleman who enjoys being a good neighbor and having good neighbor s.  He is an engineer who is also an only child.  He has too many toys.  He enjoys making smart,cutting remarks and giving unsolicited advise and critisizes everytone around him.  Ihave heard him screaming at his son like a dog and his wife is a little mouse who is afraid of him because of his violent temper.  He has broken  community covenants by doing auto mechanics continually in his yard and refuses to quit.  I have had all I can take of him and want to move but due to the slow home sales and the drop in home pries, I cannot afford to move. 

 

Does anyone have any suggestions to help us?

 

Thanks

 

Stan