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February 16, 2008, 8:48 am PST

02/22 Hell Weddings

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It sounds to me like Michael didn't know how to deal with the stress of the big day, and I can understand being anxious- but he got drunk, which is never a good way to face your problems.  He should have talked to his fiancee about how he felt, and maybe went to the courthouse instead.  If it was a really big deal for her, then maybe he should have taken some anti-anxiety meds or gotten some relaxation techniques to work through it.  Either way, he should have talked to her about how he felt and reached a mutual compromise.  Everything's negotiable.

Makes me wonder just why Michael was so anxious. Was it just the wedding that un-nerved him? Or, the marriage that followed. Maybe Janae had held grudges in the past. Over much less seriuos issues than getting drunk. So, maybe Michael was having second thoughts about marrying her. Anyway, it's been two years since Michael got drunk. To continue holding a grudge is, IMO, awfully petty and mean of Janae. Especially if he hasn't had anything to drink since the wedding.  I just hope DR Phil doesn't "reward" her attitude with another "wedding."
 
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February 22, 2008, 7:33 am PST

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It sounds to me like Michael didn't know how to deal with the stress of the big day, and I can understand being anxious- but he got drunk, which is never a good way to face your problems.  He should have talked to his fiancee about how he felt, and maybe went to the courthouse instead.  If it was a really big deal for her, then maybe he should have taken some anti-anxiety meds or gotten some relaxation techniques to work through it.  Either way, he should have talked to her about how he felt and reached a mutual compromise.  Everything's negotiable.

If he had taken enough anti-anxiety meds,  he could have possibly just slept peacefully through the reception instead of passing out from alcohol!  Good suggestion....And, it was and rightfully should have been a "Really Big Deal" to the bride.  I am sure she was mortified by his behavior.  It seems like people are blaming the bride, when the groom is the one who made an *ss out of himself.  Maybe he was nervous, maybe he wasn't.  I am sure the bride was nervous just as well, but she didn't  drink five or six shots before her wedding to calm herself down.  To put it simply, he disrepected and embarrassed his bride and so what if it is two years later....I don't blame her for the way she feels.  HE RUINED their wedding day. 
 


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