Quote From: gwarrior6
I think he LIKES her fat, that way, she wouldn't be attractive enough to leave him for someone else. That's why he's so emotionally abusive, I think that he knows at some level that being abusive is going to drive her to eat more, and keep her fat and at home. If she DID leave him, how many supermodels would he REALLY attract? This is just a mirror of his own self dissatisfaction and he's not man enough to deal with his self esteem problems. So he makes Karen deal with it, what a loser.
I have seen this type of behavior exhibited whereas the person doing the insulting/demeaning, degrading are actually the ones with the low self esteem problem themselves.
This is really a dysfunctional relationship that he is a having with himself and a bringing the family that he claims to love so much, into the mix...
I pray that the counseling that Dr. Phil is providing will help...who knows?, "One should never say never."
A bit of spiritual support wouldn't hurt them both as well...anytime God is brought into the mix, miracles do happen.
Those are my thoughts
May You All Be Blessed
Love, Light and Peace
Tonie
