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February 16, 2008, 12:27 pm PST
02/20 Bully Husband
Quote From: ramairYou're right. Many a husband will "gripe" about his wife's excess
weight. But, when she tries to lose weight, he will do everything
within his power to sabotage her efforts. He's in his "comfort zone"
with a fat wife. But, not with a wife who loses weight and becomes
attractive to others. Then, he'll have to change. Maybe even lose his
own excess weight. Or, risk losing her to someone else. You have hit the nail on the head. This guy certainly has his own problems. Instead of dealing with them he abuses his wife to make himself feel better. What a loser. Take the first step and reach out to your support system. There is so much available for battered women but you know you have to take the iniative. I imagine it will be very hard but for your children's sake take it.
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