Quote From: ramairMakes me wonder just
why Michael
was so anxious. Was it just the wedding that un-nerved him? Or, the
marriage that followed. Maybe Janae had held grudges in the past. Over
much less seriuos issues than getting drunk. So, maybe Michael was
having second thoughts about marrying her. Anyway, it's been two
years since
Michael got drunk. To continue holding a grudge is, IMO, awfully petty
and mean of Janae. Especially if he hasn't had anything to drink since
the wedding. I just hope DR Phil doesn't "reward" her attitude
with another "wedding."
Maybe it was the actual wedding, or maybe he felt that he was marrying a monster. I agree that two years is INSANELY long to hold a grudge. Maybe he has a drinking problem that should have been addressed in premarital or couples counseling. I really hope they address that,as it may be an addiction that she has to deal with. If she knew about his drinking problem, why marry him? Or why not wait until he was out of rehab?
I know that a lot of people drink or smoke out of anxiety and then it becomes an addiction or a way of life to deal with problems. If Janae knew about it, does she really have the right to hold a grudge? If they never talked about his problems, or tried to resolve anxiety issues, or got him into treatment, then what did she expect?
Janae could have 1000 ceremonies and have snafus in every one of them- and then a lousy marriage. The party isn't as important in comparison. If she loves him, she should get therapy to help her deal with grudges and if she just wanted a party and not a marriage, then she need to rethink marriage.
