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February 21, 2008, 3:14 pm PST

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I think the only people that should have the right to make decisions abouth the childs best intrest should be the mother and the father! If neither want the child to have contact with the grandparents then that shouldn't be an issue for the courts or anybody else! The only time the grandparents should have that right is if both parents are deceased or if neither are fit take care for the child! Sometimes I believe the court system has more control over your child than the actual parents! I think the only time the courts should be involed is in custody  cases!

This is insane. Rita had her chance to raise a child and she has certainly not established a loving bond! I can't believe that nobody is protecting this poor young mother. I am closer to Rita's age, and I know that older people possess greater financial resources and saavy to navigate the court system. Why is the court even involved in this case? The boy is over 12 and he does not want to see Rita. That woman should get a life! There are so many other wonderful things to do. If she cannot be supportive of her adult daughter, she should leave her alone! Shame on the court system! Shame on you, Dr. Phil for not standing up for the parents.
 
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February 21, 2008, 3:21 pm PST

Yes, I agree

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I think the only people that should have the right to make decisions abouth the childs best intrest should be the mother and the father! If neither want the child to have contact with the grandparents then that shouldn't be an issue for the courts or anybody else! The only time the grandparents should have that right is if both parents are deceased or if neither are fit take care for the child! Sometimes I believe the court system has more control over your child than the actual parents! I think the only time the courts should be involed is in custody  cases!

This is insane. Rita had her chance to raise a child and she has certainly not established a loving bond! I can't believe that nobody is protecting this poor young mother. I am closer to Rita's age, and I know that older people possess greater financial resources and saavy to navigate the court system. Why is the court even involved in this case? The boy is over 12 and he does not want to see Rita. That woman should get a life! There are so many other wonderful things to do. If she cannot be supportive of her adult daughter, she should leave her alone! Shame on the court system! Shame on you, Dr. Phil for not standing up for the parents.
 
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February 22, 2008, 9:52 am PST

Family Court Battles

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I think the only people that should have the right to make decisions abouth the childs best intrest should be the mother and the father! If neither want the child to have contact with the grandparents then that shouldn't be an issue for the courts or anybody else! The only time the grandparents should have that right is if both parents are deceased or if neither are fit take care for the child! Sometimes I believe the court system has more control over your child than the actual parents! I think the only time the courts should be involed is in custody  cases!

I think that the whole family needs counseling one  on one. The boy should be separated from all the family

right now. They are all putting their thoughts into him and that is just not fair, he is old enough to make a decision on who he wants to be with, but he can't do that with the constant tug of war that's going on. Give him his own space and let him decide, with out interference and guilt. Let him know that what ever decision that he makes will not cause him any grief. That's where the counselors and doctors come in.

Pleas give this boy a new start in life, forget what Mommy, Daddy, and Gram wants, it is not about them. I hope that they can all heal.

 

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February 22, 2008, 5:20 pm PST

02/21 Family Court Battles

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I think the only people that should have the right to make decisions abouth the childs best intrest should be the mother and the father! If neither want the child to have contact with the grandparents then that shouldn't be an issue for the courts or anybody else! The only time the grandparents should have that right is if both parents are deceased or if neither are fit take care for the child! Sometimes I believe the court system has more control over your child than the actual parents! I think the only time the courts should be involed is in custody  cases!

I understand why you are saying this but my grandparents started this gradparents rights law because of us kids..... please read my mssg from before.
 
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June 2, 2008, 11:05 pm PDT

child rights

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I think the only people that should have the right to make decisions abouth the childs best intrest should be the mother and the father! If neither want the child to have contact with the grandparents then that shouldn't be an issue for the courts or anybody else! The only time the grandparents should have that right is if both parents are deceased or if neither are fit take care for the child! Sometimes I believe the court system has more control over your child than the actual parents! I think the only time the courts should be involed is in custody  cases!

THE DEPARTMENT OF HUMAN SERVICES / CHILD PROTECION SERVICES  HAVE ALL THE POWER OVER OUR CHILDREN.................YOURS, MINE, THEIRS AND ANY CHILD ANYWHERE! IF YOU DON'T BELIEVE ME THEN REMEMBER BACK TO ALL THOSE THEY TOOK FROM THE MOTHERS IN TEXAS!!!

 

THEY CAN COME IN TO ANY HOME ANYTIME THEY WANT AND TAKE YOUR CHILD REGARDLESS IF YOU ARE CATHOLIC, METHODIST, BAPTIST, LUTHERAN, SOUTHER BAPTIST, ENGLISH LUTHERAN, JEHOVAH'S WITNESS, MORMAN, ..........WHITE, BLACK, RED, BROWN,  .....................THEY HAVE ALL THE POWER OVER ALL OUR CHILDREN!!!!  YOU GOT IT???   GET IT!!
 
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June 5, 2008, 4:48 pm PDT

Mom and Dad Decide

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I think the only people that should have the right to make decisions abouth the childs best intrest should be the mother and the father! If neither want the child to have contact with the grandparents then that shouldn't be an issue for the courts or anybody else! The only time the grandparents should have that right is if both parents are deceased or if neither are fit take care for the child! Sometimes I believe the court system has more control over your child than the actual parents! I think the only time the courts should be involed is in custody  cases!

I completely agree with you!
 
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