Replies to '06/05 Family Court Battles'

 

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angry
June 7, 2008, 10:34 am PDT

Fmily Court Battles

Quote From: dottieh

 I would hold up on judgement of the mom until you hear the whole story.   I have also had one of my parents accuse me of keeping him from his grandson.  Some times our parents do not deserve to have time with our children and if that boy does not want to see his grandma no one should make him.   I made my  son go with me the last time I went to see my father in the nursing home because my father asked to see my son on for thier birthdays,  My sons is Feb 9 and my fathers Feb 15.   My son never like to see my dad because he was a mean cuss of a man most of the time,    And now thanks to me making my son go to see his grandfather,  His last memory of his grandfather is of him saying something cold heartless  to him.   My father died early the next morning.   So if grandma has made herself unwelcome in her grandson and daughters life..... well you reap what you sow.   My father was real a****le and reaped many of those benefits in the end of his life...  Yes I still went to see him and did what I should.... but it was me doing my duty Honoring my father,  my mother recieves more love and attention from me and my children than my father could ever imagine.    Control your children and never show them love and respect well then do expect them to bring thier children to visit.
 I AGREE WITH YOU COMPLETELY!!  MY 2 DAUGHTERS FINALLY MET THEIR "GRANDFATHER", AND HE TOLD THEM THEY WEREN'T HIS GRANDKIDS-AND THAT HE HAD NO DAUGHTER BY MY NAME.  NOW BEAR IN MIND, AT THIS TIME, HE WAS IN COMPLETE CONTROL OF ALL HIS FACULTIES!!!  HE WAS JUST A MEAN, MISERABLE, NASTY, HORRIBLE OLD MAN!!!!!!  AND I HATE TO SAY IT, BUT THE WAY THIS RITA TALKED, AND THE WAY KOAL SAID SHE TALKED TO HIM; THAT DIDN'T SOUND TO MUCH DIFFERENT THAN MY "BIOLOGICAL DONOR" TALKED TO MY CHILDREN WHEN THEY WERE AROUND HIM.  NOW THAT YOU REALIZE THINGS MORE-THE WAY HE SPOKE TO MY CHILDREN WAS MENTAL AND VERBAL ABUSE, AND ENDANGERING THE WELFARE OF CHILDREN!!!!
I WAS EVEN MORE BITTER TO HIM BECAUSE HE USED TO BE SO MEAN TO MY MOM.  MY MOM WAS 20 YRS YOUNGER THAN HIM; HE CHEATED ON HER-HE DID MEAN THINGS TO HER, JUST TO BE MEAN!!!  HE WAS NEVER PHYSICALLY ABUSIVE=JUST EVERYOTHER KIND.  SHE WAS VERY STRICT CATHOLIC, AND SHE THOUGHT SHE COULD STICK IT OUT AND MAKE HIM INTO SOMETHING HE COULD "NEVER BE"; A DECENT HUMAN BEING.  MY GRANDMA, HIS MOTHER, BEGGED MY MOM TO LEAVE HIM; HE HAD MADE MY MOM PHYSICALLY SICK BY BEING SO MEAN TO HER; SHE HAD HER FIRST HEART ATTACK AT 32.  FINALLY MY MOM DID LEAVE HIM-HE BROUGHT OUT A GUN AND STARTED SHOOTING IT WHEN THEY WERE LOADING UP THE TRUCKS FOR US TO MOVE OUT.  THIS IS A WONDERFUL GRANDPARENT WHO REALLY, DEEP INSIDE HATED HIS OWN KIDS!!!!!!!!  THANKS TO THE YEARS SHE PUT UP WITH THAT WRETCH, MY MOM WHO WAS A SAINT DIED WHEN SHE WAS 46 AND I WAS 13-MY BEST FRIEND, I HAD NO IDEA HOW I WOULD EVEN LIVE!!  AND THAT HORRIBLE, MEAN,MAN LIVED TO BE 94 YRS OLD; SOMEONE PLZ TELL ME HOW THATS FAIR.  I NEEDED MY MOM FOR ALL THIS TIME, BUT THAT MAN LIVED THAT LONG, WHEN HE ONLY TALKED TO 1 OF ALL 4 OF US GIRLS, AND THATS BECAUSE SHE WOULD PUT UP WITH HIS NASTINESS BECAUSE WHEN HE DIED, SHE TOOK OFF WITH ALL HIS MONEY TO ALASKA AND 3 OF US GIRLS GOT NOTHING, AND I THINK WE DESERVED SOMETHING FROM THAT OLD MEAN B**TARD!!!
HE DIED A LONELY OLD MAN, AND UNLESS RITA OLD GIRL CHANGES HER WAYS, THATS WHATS GONNA HAPPEN TO HER-OH NO WAIT, HER ADULT SON THAT STILL LIVES WITH MOMMY AND OFF COURSE HER "BOY TOY" WILL BE THER TO GET EVERYTHING, JUST LIKE MY FAMILY.  THEY WILL DEFEND EVERY LOW, DISGUSTING, MEAN, NASTY, OBNOXIOUS THING SHE DOES JUST TO HAVE MOMMY'S APPROVAL.  THIS SHOW WAS ABOUT THE MOST EASY TO SEE WHO WAS LYING THAT HAS BEEN ON HERE EVER!!!!!
 


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