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February 18, 2008, 9:05 pm PST

Have a relationship with a DRUNK???

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Chill out. The wedding day is only the start of the marriage. Yes, it is important, but today too much time and money is spent on the "Big Day" The real wedding begins when the "big day" is over. A marriage is what you do after the wedding day.  Being together and building a strong relationship is what is important. Yes, I would have been upset with my husband if he'd gotton drunk, but I suspect he didn't just find alcohol on the day of the wedding. As far as Bridezillias, GROW UP.  No one wants to be with a &tch.  20 minutes after you are married all the "stuff" doesn't seem as important. You'd better figure out what the hell is more important, having a "perfect" wedding or having a good relationship with your family, friends and spouse.
These days it is hard enough having a successful relationship with someone with all their senses.  It is much harder, wait, impossible to have a relationship with a DRUNK.  This is then a one sided relationship, as the DRUNK, is really never there.  Please don't put this on the bride, if the groom could not accept a bride who obviously had high expectations he should have bailed out during the dating phase, not wait to emotionally detach by making himself so DRUNK, he could not even enjoy a wedding night. That is so sad!!!
 
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February 19, 2008, 9:09 am PST

Agree!

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Chill out. The wedding day is only the start of the marriage. Yes, it is important, but today too much time and money is spent on the "Big Day" The real wedding begins when the "big day" is over. A marriage is what you do after the wedding day.  Being together and building a strong relationship is what is important. Yes, I would have been upset with my husband if he'd gotton drunk, but I suspect he didn't just find alcohol on the day of the wedding. As far as Bridezillias, GROW UP.  No one wants to be with a &tch.  20 minutes after you are married all the "stuff" doesn't seem as important. You'd better figure out what the hell is more important, having a "perfect" wedding or having a good relationship with your family, friends and spouse.

 

Way too much time and money are spent on

"The Big Day' or actually "The Big Year" is better

suited after the bride bosses around family and

friends all year...telling them what they expect them

to wear, spent, sit, give up time off work etc...

 

ha ha it never ends......

 


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