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February 20, 2008, 9:44 am PST

02/20 Bully Husband

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Ramair... I so rudely agree with you.... Rick needs to look at himself in the mirror before he tries to fix Karen.  Karen... you need to divorce him... you can do better.  Your 4 yr old daughter will be brainwashed by him if you don't.... at least you have a chance now.  Rick will not change enough for you to recover if you stay with him....  Dr. Phil has said something to the effect of: YOU NEED 1,000 compliments or possitives to counteract every 1 negative......  and everyday you stay with him you add to the negative list.....  YOU DON'T DESERVE IT... and you will NEVER LOSE WEIGHT listening to his continual put downs...  You will probably lose weight after you leave him.... and be able to share a life with someone who treats you right and will be in your corner and supportive of you in every way..... and there are plenty of fish in the sea.  Throw this one back for your sake and for the sake of your kids....
Rick has gained weight since the wedding, too. He weighs 270. And, his BMI is two points higher than Karen's. I agree that Karen will probably lose weight if she'll leave Rick. With him, and his junk food, out of the house, she can set up the no fail environment Dr Phil recommends for lasting weight loss.
 
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July 13, 2008, 8:43 pm PDT

Karen's the mirror

Quote From: lvacffeshp

Ramair... I so rudely agree with you.... Rick needs to look at himself in the mirror before he tries to fix Karen.  Karen... you need to divorce him... you can do better.  Your 4 yr old daughter will be brainwashed by him if you don't.... at least you have a chance now.  Rick will not change enough for you to recover if you stay with him....  Dr. Phil has said something to the effect of: YOU NEED 1,000 compliments or possitives to counteract every 1 negative......  and everyday you stay with him you add to the negative list.....  YOU DON'T DESERVE IT... and you will NEVER LOSE WEIGHT listening to his continual put downs...  You will probably lose weight after you leave him.... and be able to share a life with someone who treats you right and will be in your corner and supportive of you in every way..... and there are plenty of fish in the sea.  Throw this one back for your sake and for the sake of your kids....

Sounds like he is talking to himself and his poor wife happens to be there.  Pictures speak a thousands words, Karen take a few of him and say, " You know all this time I thought you  where aggravated with my weight problem, until I looked at this picture of you, Rick. Don't worry big boy, I love you even though you are a tub of lard."  Personally I don't think people with controlling personalities think about others enough .

 


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