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February 29, 2008, 5:03 pm PST

Overcoming Grief

Quote From: klocker13

 Well, here goes I have tried just about everyone I can think of to just ask for a bit of advice.. so here it goes, In march of this past year March 14,2007 to be exact we suffered the loss of my husband's sister my best friend and she lost her husband in June of 2004 they had 3 small children of which we now care for. My husband mom and dad lived with my sister and brother in law as well so we inherited them I guess you would say as well.our home is very small and we have 2 boy's of our own so as you can see it is now very crowded we have gone from a family of 4 to a family of 9 over night this last year has held much heart ache for all of us my husband are working long hours and about 2 to 3 job's apiece, then it gets better the oldest of the children had decided that life just was not work it and on November 18 of 2007 he tried to take his life by jumping off the bridge in town to the pavement below and I spent the whole month at his side in the hospital with his other aunt and I taking turns at his bed side the month I had off of work has strapped us to the point of losing home and transportation  but my nephew is at least alive and I would never ask anything more except for him walking again but he's here... point I am getting at is not one of charity but one of where to find some advice for what's left of our family to have some help emotionally for a little girl of 7 who longs for mommy a little boy of 10 who is so angry and for a boy of 13 who thought nothing but jumping off a bridge would solve his torment PLEASE DON'T LET MY LETTER GO UNNOTICED AS IT ALREADY HAS BY SO MANY!!!!! if any advice can be given please THANK YOU

All i could do was cry when i read your message. your a beautiful person and a very strong woman. I dont know you our family but i will say daily prays for you. Dont give up PLEASE. I think the children could use so counsling. It really helped my son after his dad died. Alot of places will do it for free for the children.You are in my thoughts and prays.You and your husband are special people to take care of these children there really need you two right know. Time heals all woms. It will get better for all of you. Take one day at a time.

                         GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY

 


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