Replies to 'Reigniting Romance in Your Relationship'

Hi,

Well my husband and I have been married now for almost 7 yrs. come the 24th of Feb. We've been through alot. About 2 years ago, We had some "friends" of mine ( if that's what you want to call them) stay with us for about 1 year. Well We had just had our 3rd child, 2 months before that, We were having problems and I thought it would be nice for us to help others, and maybe help ourselves. Well my marriage was falling apart, and before I knew it I had an affair with the guy who was living with us. I knew afterwards it was wrong, but at that moment I didn't know how to act... I mean I'm bi-polar and I had been off my meds. for awhile, and I hadn't dated really til I was out of high school and out of my parents house. My husband has been married once before and had a daughter. That marriage didn't last very long, and he says it was his experimental marriage. We have been having alot of problems since then, we've moved about 5 times within the year, and we have 3 children, which the youngest lives with my parents because of all of this and because I wasn't takeing my meds. Now Im 5 1/2 months pregnant, and we've moved again. Im not sure what to feel at this time. I sometimes don't know what to feel about my baby on the way. My feelings towards my husband should be better, but we have these problems. My husband does know about the affair- after I left him for about 1 month to try to figure out what I wanted and how to support my kids, Well we ended up back together and all, but sometimes he throws the affair up in my face, and says about trust. Well I have a hard time trusting him to support his family. I mean my parents have supported us alot and it's time that they didn't. How do I make my marriage stronger, and better, like we were before we married?