While it may be a day for both the Bride and the Groom, when it comes down to it, most of the money is spent on things that the Bride wants for the wedding. The Groom is as involved as he can be or wants to be in many cases, but you wouldn't go out and spend $5000 on a tuxedo for one day would you?
My fiance and I have decided that it will be day for both of us to celebrate how much we love each other and start our new life together. Like my fiance has told me, the wedding is about you and your beauty, but the reception is about us and having a good time! :)