Replies to '12/28 Wifestyles'

I read your posting and I just wanted to talk to you.  It is good that you can encourage Kelly to do what requires a lot of strength.  I also think that you need to be encouraged also. 

Although I do not know you, I know that you are a beautiful person.  You are worthy to be loved.  I know that sometimes as women, we want to be there for our man and love them.  But, a person who does not love themselves cannot possibly love you or accept your love.  And when you are dealing with a person that does not love themselves, they will do everything to ensure that you do not love yourself or value yourself or love your life.   

You say you do not know who you are.  Well, I am going to tell you who you are.  You are a woman who was created to do great things in her life.  You are intelligent and you are very positive.  I know you are positive because despite what you are going through, you were able to uplift Kelly.  Well, now it its time to be that to yourself.  It is time to uplift yourself.  Your life is valuable.  Would you like to know how I know that?  Because God created you and he loves you.  He loves you enough to know how many hairs you have on your head.  He knew who you were before you were created and he knows you now.  He feels your pain and he wants to heal you from the pain.  Whether you accept him or reject him he still loves you and wants the best for you.  I know that you feel stripped of yourself, but you will be restored.   

 In pain there is growth and in growth there is change.  I would advise you to seek out a place where you could turn to whether it be a church or  a friend you can trust or a therapist.  And if you ever feel like killing yourself again, please remember these words that I said to you.   

Although I do not know you, I will pray for you.  And please know that trouble does not last always.