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October 15, 2005, 7:09 am PDT
Difficulty Forming Friendships
Quote From: tntomboyCan anyone tell me why it is that the second you get a boyfriend a lot of people drop all of their friends? I seem to have done this myself, and it's like it just subconsiously happens. I stop hanging out with my guy friends, because I feel like that's not OK unless my BF goes with. Then, WHY on earth do I completely ignore my girlfriends? My BF works out of town at least 2 weeks out of the month, sometimes 3. I don't even talk to my friends then. I am an only child and do not get lonely very easily. I just sit around the house or go to the gym and hang out with my family. Those are not bad things to do, but some of my friends, which I have known for years, really get angry with me about this. It's bad to say, but it's almost like, when I have a BF, that thoughts of him consume the majority of my day. I don't feel like that's healthy, but on the other hand, I get engulfed by it all. Is it bad to dedicate the majority of your hours to someone that you feel one day might later be your life partner? hello ^^ i think it is not a bad thing, as long as you dont completely abandon your friends ^^ it might be just a phase you are going through, and later in life there will be times when you want to hang out with your girlfriends more ^^ so definitely keep in touch at least with a few , those who are your real friends will understand -you can tell them that at this point of your life you like to concentrate on your boyfriend but they are still important to you ^^ take care.
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