Quote From: sheila1Dr. Phil this couple needs so much counseling if they are will to make this work.
It was his my-space and it was for him only
until he lied and cheated on his wife. Now if he truly wants his marriage to work I hope he will understand that the trust is gone. Once you loose something so precious it is so hard to get back.
If he now wants a my-space account and a marriage he will have to let his precious wife in on it too. She deserves that. After all his wife has been through she deserves the right to see that website and any others that he is hiding from her.
It's going to take a long time to earn back that trust he lost so he will have to be patient with her until she feels safe again.
Thank you,
Sheila North Carolina
This couple is not married...and if Tameka has any kind of self-respect and intelligence, she will NOT marry him!
Why should she struggle so hard to "make this relationship work"? It's obviously one-sided. There are way, way too many GOOD men out there who are worthy of trust..why should she tie herself up with this lying dog? I never understood the mentality of too many women who waste their time and lives for YEARS on men who do not deserve that....and they pass up the opportunities to meet those good men because they are focused on MAKING a hopeless relationship "work". If you have to force it..it isn't worth it.
He either loves and respects you from the start, and treats you with the dignity you deserve, or he doesn't....and we all DO have that little inner voice that tells us the truth. Too many ignore it, at their own peril.
You cannot change someone's basic morals and character, no matter how much you want to!
Time on this earth is too short and too precious to waste it on worthless people!
Move on!
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