Replies to 'Childhood Sexual Abuse Support'

Ok, now I am frustrated.  That dang 20 minute rule screwed up the message I was writing and now I am starting over.  They will need to create a new board for all the members who feel like fools for having such a hard time with this new format.   Maybe my username should have been dumb blonde cause I have so much trouble.  I will keep trying to re register my old name, maybe with my DH help I can figure it out.  I'm all for learning new things but it would be nice if they got the kinks out before we fried our brains trying to figure out things that don't even work.  Momisme2 you had paragraphs in one of your posts, I just double space like before.

Now if I don't get bumped off cause I take too long to post I want to comment on why we are compassionate with others who have been put thru hell.  I find I have lots of compassion and empathy for people.  Is it because of things I went thru?  Probably but what about the people who get abused and then turn around and hurt someone else the same way?  I find it really weird that while some people learn from what happened to them and would never hurt another person other people turn out to  be the same as their abuser.  My father was an alcoholic and the things our fammily went thru because of it made me want to never put my family thru it.  I can not tolerate drunk people because of it.  So why is it some go completely opposite and stay away from anything related to their abuse while others go right the same direction and still others aren't really effected by it?