First of all, Men don't really show who they truly are until after marriage. My husband was the sweetest thing until we got married. Now??? Where is he? He goes to work, comes to the couch watches TV takes a shower and then goes to bed. In this time I am cleaning, bathing kids and doing everything else. Now do you really think that I would of married him if I had known this? It's not as though I don't talk to him about it, but... What's the point when it seems there is a gap between his ears of NOTHING. Now you can say whatever you want about Well, women change too, but I assure you I am the same (*****) Now that I was when he met me. He will tell everyone I have not changed one bit. I was married before and I made it a point to be VERY UPFRONT about who I am, what I expected and how I was. We didn't want any surprises this time, WELL Let me tell ya, I am surprised at how lazy men can get after taking some vows. It's really pathetic. I am not saying all men are like this, I don't know, I don't know all men though. I just know my husbands have shown in the past a pattern and it's very sad.
Kay
