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scyangel17

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March 6, 2008, 7:54 pm PST

I feel your pain

Quote From: mwaite1

I know that people are terrified of knowing that a sexual offender lives anywhere near them, but think of it in another way. How would you like to live next to someone that has sexually molested 4 different children and has never seen the inside of a police station. I wish this was only a scenerio I just wrote about, but it is not. It is MY LIFE. This piece of trash is my brother. He molested myself and my sister at around the age of 5 yrs old. We were never allowed to speak about it to anyone. Then for the next 14 yrs I would sleep every night with my door locked and knots in my stomach. I always felt that I was dealing with it and it was in my past. Little did I know what was about to happen. I have not worked in over 4 yrs now, I suffer from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Anxiety Disorder, Depression and can see the signs of Agoraphobia. I would have never guessed that by not speaking of what happened to me would consume the rest of my life. On a nice Sunday in August of 2006, my mother in law called me to tell me that my daughter (10 yrs old) just told her that her Uncle had tried to have sex with her when she was 5 yrs old. It was like opening a wound and pouring all the salt in the world on it. I can't lie, I wanted to kill him and if my husband hadn't stopped me, I might have done it. We took all the proper and legal steps, even though years had passed since the incident. We filed the necessary reports with our local Sheriffs Dept. Several weeks later we received a call from the Detective letting us know that our case was being closed due to lack of evidence. They never even picked him up for questioning. They simply went to his home (actually my deceased father's home) and asked him if he had committed this act and he said "NO". I have since written to all our State Reps, Senators, Governor, County Manager, County Commissioners, District Attorney and Sheriff. Guess What???? Sorry ma'am, but your case lacks evidence. NO ONE CAN AND/OR WILL HELP US!!!!!!! What is really scary is, I was molested in 1977 and my daughter in 2001. What happened during that 24 yr span that we don't know about? So, while I understand everyones concerns about living near a sexual offender, but at least you know who they are and where they are. Oh and on the subject of what type of punishment they should receive, in my opinion, if they are true sexual offenders, they should have tiny razor cuts all over them, place them in a room with a wonderful view and fill the fire sprinklers with rubbing alcohol, then set them to go off constantly. This way, they can suffer for the rest of their lives while watching the world just pass them by.

I truly do feel your pain. I was abused by my father and now my daughter has been abused by her father. I kind of like your idea about the razor cuts and sprinklers filled with alcohol, but I think that this is too good for them. There is no way that anyone can understand the pain and suffering that this causes, even way into adulthood. Thank God, I am no longer a victim, and I am doing EVERYTHING in my power to ensure that my daughter will NEVER be victimized again!!!

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