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March 6, 2008, 8:34 pm PST

DIDNT KNOW THE AGE "YEAH RIGHT"

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My son is a immature 21 year old that has been trying to have a normal relationship with girls 18 and over. He is a sweet kid and I call him kid because that is what he is like, a kid. Well, this past week we have been going through a tough time as he was with a girl that claimed she was 18 and looked that age. Come to find out she was 15. My son didn't know her very long to find out the truth about her.  We are finding out that this girl has accused others of the same thing she has accused my son of. I assure you my son is not dangerous and could possible have to register as a sex offender.  I think before someone jumps to a conclusion that all people that are registered sex offenders are dangerous criminals, maybe you should actually find out what their story is and possibly they were also accused of something they actually didn't do. I am all for keeping the creeps and perverts away from our children but there are some out there that just got a bad rap. What about these young girls that get mad because the guy figured out their story or just decided the relationship wasn't working. They can make up anything and ruin a young mans life.  As this girl has done to my son.

TWENTY EIGHT YEARS AGO I NEW HOW OLD THEY WERE AND IF I DIDNT I WAS BROUGHT UP TO KNOW NOT TOO MESS AROUND.ILL BET HER ID SAID HER AGE AND IF IT COULD NOT BE   PRODUCED THEN BACK UP.I HONESTLY BELIEVE THAT THE MOM GETS ALL THE CREDIT FOR HER CHILDREN "GOOD AND BAD" IM TOLD THAT ITS ALL IN THE UPBRINGING AND I REALLY DONT AGREE TOTALY BUT IT SURE IS 80% OF IT.WE NEED TO BE EXPLICIT WITH OUR CHILDREN ON ALL FACETS OF LIFE TO MAKE SURE THAT THEY ARE KEPT SAFE AND HEALTHY.SO IF THIS HAPPENED TO MY CHILDREN I WOULD HAVE TO TAKE SOME OF THE BLAME BECAUSE I WASNT WATCHING,TEACHING AND OR DISAPLINING ENOUGH.IN OUR MINDS AS WE GROW UP IN ANY SITUATION WE ALL THINK ABOUT WHAT IS RIGHT AND WRONG AND THEN WE ACT.THERE IS NOBODY THAT IS SO INOCENT AND UNKNOWING AT 21 OR THERE IS SOMETHING ELSE WRONG HERE.ITS MY MOMS FAULT THAT I AM ME.IVE BEEN TOLD BY MANY PEOPLE THAT SHE IS TO BLAME FOR ME MAKING DECISIONS THAT HAVE MADE MY LIFE WHAT IT IS,THANK GOD FOR MY MOM,SHE IS RESPONSIBLE FOR MY ACCOMPLISHMENTS IN LIFE AND HOW I CONDUCT MY LIFE.
 
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March 7, 2008, 3:49 pm PST

03/07 Dr. Phil Now: Sex Offenders Next Door

Quote From: tina3940

My son is a immature 21 year old that has been trying to have a normal relationship with girls 18 and over. He is a sweet kid and I call him kid because that is what he is like, a kid. Well, this past week we have been going through a tough time as he was with a girl that claimed she was 18 and looked that age. Come to find out she was 15. My son didn't know her very long to find out the truth about her.  We are finding out that this girl has accused others of the same thing she has accused my son of. I assure you my son is not dangerous and could possible have to register as a sex offender.  I think before someone jumps to a conclusion that all people that are registered sex offenders are dangerous criminals, maybe you should actually find out what their story is and possibly they were also accused of something they actually didn't do. I am all for keeping the creeps and perverts away from our children but there are some out there that just got a bad rap. What about these young girls that get mad because the guy figured out their story or just decided the relationship wasn't working. They can make up anything and ruin a young mans life.  As this girl has done to my son.

time for your son to grow up, your story is the same as the mother of the 19 year old,

I knew the age would grow,  where does it end, next there will be a mother of a 25 year old, no wait i think there is one posting out there, saying how their poor boys where trick by these lying girls, it not their falt, it never ends its not their falt, their the adult blaming the child for lying,

 

your boy is 21 she 15 he should go to jail for a very long time, your son is the creep an pervert who likes younger girls,

at what age do you think a man should be before its just creepy, is it ok for a 40 to have sex with a 15 because his mommy thinks hes young for his age,an knows no better PLEASE

 


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