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March 10, 2008, 2:43 pm PDT
03/12 Let’s Talk about Sex
Quote From: gwarrior6
Despite my moral objections, I still think its a bad idea. A big problem with the affairs is that they don't solve the problem with your husband. He'll still have that sexual dysfunction and maybe he's just embarrased about it, too. I hope you emphasized how important sex is to you to him and insist that he see a doctor. Who knows, he may be having an affair also, which may explain his lack of interest (or lack of acknowledgement), you never know unless you deal with it.
Second, I think you can go into a sexual relationship and not intend to form an emotional attachment. If you do, I think it can devastate your marriage. Before you know it, youre having an emotional as well as physical affair. For me, I have to feel something about the person I have sex with, I can't just do it on cue. There has to be an emotional basis to it.
Third, I think youre putting your own health at risk. The more sexual partners you have, the more vigilant you have to be to prevent STD's and pregnancy. Then, your husband will start to ask questions if you get pregnant and you haven't had sex in years, unless he's doesn't care.
Those are just my thoughts on it, and I hope you can solve this problem instead of throwing away a good marriage. All marriages take work. Good luck, and I hope you can meet your needs without hurting your husband. Great post. You make many good points. But, I suspect, it's all lost on inez47. Where she's from, the Netherlands, takes a very casual view of adultery and other forms of sexual promiscuity. In fact, most of Scandinavia, especially Sweden, is this way. In fact, in at least one of these counties, sex with children, even one's own, is legal.
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