Quote From: blush_its almost like being afraid of what everyone else thinks.
i mean my friend has a big bust. and im no more than a A cup.
who gets attention?
what is perfect?
is it the magazine cover? or is it what everyone else around u thinks u should look like.
We all here there is no such thing as "perfect"
yet... how come we need to be?
Dear Blush,
Do you like Sara Evans (country singer)? She sings a song that, I think, could answer your "If there's no such thing as perfect, why do we have to be?" question. Here's a couple quotes, "It's only human to never be satisfied. Well I guess that I'm as human as the one." "I keep looking for something more. I'm always wondering what's on the other side of number two door, because I keep looking for something more." I really think you would get a kick out of that song!
The only person we can ever change is ourselves, and we are affected by our environment whether in a positive manner or a negative. So, if something painful happens we start to ask ourselves, "Well, would Johnny have called me if my hair was blonde? Would I have gotten that second date with Billy if I was a cup size bigger? Would I have more friends if I was more of a party girl?" This starts a very hurtful pattern that spreads like wildfire, and destroys your self-esteem! Let's put it this way, if people did not want me in their life for these reasons, then they were not worth having anyway! In regards to your cup size remark, it really doesn't matter about that. I am the large-busted friend in the equation, and my smaller-busted friend gets all of the attention! She is the wild one and I am shy and reserved. She kinda commands the attention now and asks questions later!
So, I guess, that we have to take stock of our gifts and be thankful that we are each the unique people that we are. Our authentic self is a precious gift, and the only person who can take that away from us is ourselves. Nice to meet you!
Smile!
~Sunshine~
