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March 17, 2008, 11:13 am PDT
We have told her
Quote From: brokeninsideThere's got to be a reason why she's saying that. Tell her that the reason why you guys don;t want her around is because of her negativity and don't know how to talk to you girls. It really upsets me to hear a mother talking to their children like that. Of allthings, mothers should know better. I wasn't brought up in the best conditions but I've said to my self from a long time ago that when I have kids I wouldn't do what I was brought up in. And now I can knock on wood because my children has lots of respect for me and they are glad that I'm not llike the rest of the family. My children to me is my world and I want the best for them. What I mean by best is not material things cause I'm not rich. but my love, understanding and ears to listen.
Mom needs help and she needs to seek it out for herself. To tell you the truth, you guys can't do it for her, she needs to do it for herself. Try to be patient and talk to her. Try to reason with her and tell her that if you guys didn't love her you guys wouldn't care if she gets help. and That all of you are willing to help her through this tough time of her life. My sister and I have told her over and over that we love her but she is too negative. We are trying to get our lives together and raise our kids without all the negativity in their lives and then here she comes. She will ask my kids if I have fed them today. She ask them what they ate. She ask if I have paid any attention to them today! If I have company, she comes over and embarrasses me by putting me down about how bad a mother I am to my kids. If I am not in my kid's face all the time..I am neglecting them. She nevre comes over and says anything nice. So when I ignore her and tell her to stay away., she threatens to kill herself. She does this to my sister and her kids too. It is driving us crazy. She wrote my sister a letter and told her that she has forsake her and she will regret it one day. My sister is soo upset. Nothing we do for her is good enough. We cant support her financially. We do good to support our own family. But she expects us too. It's just crazy. We tell her to get a life.
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