Quote From: oet_gaolWell you found out mean girls leave you alone if you are one of the mean girls. You now found out that others don't respect you for who you are now but for what you do.
It is hard to change old habits but you might try writing a letter to yourself in which you write down what happened to you, what you did to the other kids and what you don't like about that. This will make you aware of what you are doing. You might also write a letter to the kids who bullied you in which you forgive them, if you still have their negativity within you it will be hard to stop and see the good in people. Also write a letter to your victoms in which you ask for their forgivenis and that you want to change and that you where once one of them. These letters are symbolic and for your eyes only, after you wrote them burn them so that you close off the past and all that has happened.
But the change is harder then just that you need to change your behaviour and that takes time. Ask a teacher/school counselor whom you trust to help you with changing your behaviour.
I hope this will help you with your process,
xx Oet Gäöl
Hi good tips i guess i can do that but the most hardest things to do is to apologize cause it is hard to me to say that i am wrong but i really do think that it is worth going a step forward so i am ganna try my best so i guess i can do all these things.
thank u so much for evrey single word of advice.
