Replies to '12/25 Parent Trap'

Terribin:

Don't support the lie.   Maria and other women like her are criminals hiding behind their children.  There can only be adoped children (someone you knowingly took charge of) or your biological children.  There should not be a catagory for people who lie.  Enrique pays far more than the cost to raise a child in child support.  Maria lived with the biological father while they collected child support and free child care for Selina, um excuse me for pointing out the obvious but perhaps he (bio daddy) should be paying?  Oh, I forgot, he doesn't make as much as Enrique. What a surprise!  Maria has a history of taking advantage of people and lieing.  I know her, and she has left many victims in her wake, not just Selina and Enrique......What does it teach our children if we support someone who lies for money?  It should be treated like any other fraud!!!  If you don't think it's a big deal and you are so concerned for Selina's mother being able to support her lifestyle - perhaps you would like to cough up the money every month!  If not ,you've really not go much to say.  It's people like you saying the money is no big deal driving to Walmart to save 5 cents on garbage bags.....it really makes me sick and you have no place saying Enrique should support someone else's child when he was lied to.

 Just so you know - the good and honest poeple of this country are passing laws to make this type of fraud against the law.  Many people have taken women like Maria to civil court and have won judgments against the women who have collected money under false pretenses.  Look at this board; most of the people do not think Enrique should have to support another man's child because he was lied to for a certain number of years.  Most of the people of this board can see cleary that Maria is nothing more than a common criminal and have no respect for her whatsoever.  Most people would think $3,000 a month is more than enough to support the child and that Maria is only collecting "MOMMY SUPPORT".  When these laws are changed people like Maria will no longer be able to lie to their children about who daddy is or about the correct health history. 

Yes, these children need to be supported by the parents who created them NOT by the husband who was cheated on and lied to.  It's so sad that people like Maria don't care who foots the bill for a lifestyle they can't afford on their own.  She was women enough to have the affair, she should be women enough to pay her own bills!  I have no respect for anyone who would lie.....how can you sink any lower than to lie to your own child and everyone around you purely for the benefit of having more money?  DON'T SUPPORT THE LIE AND SHAME ON YOU IF YOU DO!!!  

In the next couple of years, DNA tests will be taken at all live births to establish paternity.  Women will no longer be able to name any man as the father because he makes more money or she because doesn't know who daddy is.  Why reward liars like Maria???  PERHAPS MARIA SHOULD GET AN EDUCATION ABOVE 3RD GRADE AND GET A JOB TO SUPPORT HER OWN CHILDREN INSTEAD OF MAKING HER LIVING OFF THE BACK OF AN HONEST MAN BY LIEING AND HURTING EVERYONE AROUND HER!!!

There is definitely a HE in this equation, it takes two to tango, the only problem is that this HE is the wrong one. She lied and deceived him and now she's she's acting like the victim. No person should be treated like he is, whether they be male, female, with or without children she must take responsibility for her actions. Why hasn't she tried to contact the real father? Is it because she doesn't know who he is?

 

The real father deserves to know he has a daughter

The daughter deserves to know who her real father is, one reason being possible hereditary diseases

The real father needs to step up to the plate and be a man instead of letting another man pay for his child

 

All the pain that poor girl is experiencing is because her mother caused it 13 years ago. If the roles were reversed and I were a man, I would definitely be crushed to know that not only has my wife cheated on me but I'm also paying for her lies.