Quote From: muzezuruI am in the exact same situation right. I met ,in husband in college ,we dated for 3yrs,we'v been married for 2.After all the time I took to get to know him, I still cant believe how much he's changed. He says he loves me, but will not make any changes or make any sacrifices to make our marriage work. I feel I'm the only one present in this relationship now.I acant understand what happened and I'm now thinking about Checking out.
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I can relate to you too. My husband would move the world for me before we got married. Now I feel like I have to make the effort to most things to work. We have been married for 8 yrs with 3 children. The difference here is that I decided, after being emotionally hurt for so long; to change my expectations, see in me who I was and what I could do better instead bagging him for attention. When you get in a certain situation in your life you have to stop and reflect. Talk to a good friend , take a walk and watch Dr. Phil. You would see a big difference it will make. For us to make things work, first we have see whats wrong with us, we are not perfect, there is always room for improvement. From what I went through I realized I was expecting something from my husband which was not going to happen, so if I didn't respected and excepted him for what he is and see his positive side. We would not be together by now. You are not alone and you can make a difference in your marriage you have to believe in your self . If all things don't work for you may be is time to move on. To work as a family everyone have to participate.
