Replies to '08/19 Tired of Being a Mom'

You know I grew up with a mom that didn't want me. She told me everyday I wish you were dead, I hate you, and your nothin but a wh*re and sl*t. She would send me away to anyone that would take me and people that wanted to adopt me she would tell them "I'm not done making her life hel." But wanted me back just so i could clean her house. She hated me because she had to divorce her husband for molesting me and other girls that she babysat for him to do it to. She kicked me out to a police officer when i was 14 and told him "You can have the b*tch I never wanted her to begin with." After I left that day she put my stuff on the curve for the trash man to come and get it. We went to court because she had filed Unruly charge and another charge against me. I went to all my teacher , employer, and the 5 families that I babysat for and had them write letters. When we got to court the judge made her drop the charges against me cause she had no proof that i was unruly. The judge told her "Do you know how dumb you are?" I about died laughing. I never had anything to do with her.

I had just had our son and the phone rang. My husband handed me the phone and the person on the other line said 'When can i come see my grandson?" I said 'You are not my mom so you don't have a grandson.' my husband then took the phone away from me. This woman has no clue its always been about her and she thinks she does nothing wrong and have never done nothing wrong. She has always told me that I made all this stuff up.

After kicking me out of the house. I found out she had foster children. Are you kidding me???? I called the foster agency and asked them "How can a woman not raise her own kids and raise someone elses?" They were out of her house fast.

She also kicked my younger sister out of the house. So now she has 2 girls that have nothing to do with her and don't want nothing to do with her. We each have 2 children and she calls herself a grandmother. WHATEVER!!!! She does get to see our kids but ONLY because she lives with her mother (our grandmother). it makes me sick though. I don't trust her and because of it I'm the bad child. I don't care!!! I'm here to love my children to the fullest and show them that I will protect them. I just now sat down both of my children and explained everything to them. The molestation, rape, beatings, and etc.

Then to top it all off the man that she was married to and is the man on my birth certificate ended up not being my dad. I found the other man we knew each other for 2 yrs. After that I agreed to tell him everything after I took him out for our first Father's Day. While waiting on him my husband called the house to see where he was. He had been killed earlier that day mowing his lawn and a man had a seizure and hit him head on. So I can't stand her for taking the precious time away from both of us. If she didn't want me then why didn't she just give me to him.

you know what my quote has always been: "Just becaue you bare a child does NOT mean you deserve the mother or father name. You have to earn that."