Replies to '03/27 "Get Your Act Together!"'
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March 27, 2008, 8:11 am PDT
 Quote From: afraid it sounds like you love your mom and dad very much, i live at home with my mom,im now 51, i moved back home with her several years ago, she had to under go cancer sergury kemo and raditaon treatment, people NOT knowing this would peg me as a mooch becouse im home with mom, b4 i see my mother spend her remaning days in a dame nursing home ill walk through the very pits of HELL and make satan himself run like the wind from me, yeah i love mom that much!!! shes 76 now and doing very good she still drives cooks and even gets to keep her flowers pretty, i do let her do what she can and is able to do, it helps her keep in shape, but its hands off to all the cleaning and yard work, i have a son now 18 who lives here as well, and hes a god send, he has a job at a computer shop, hes very gifted in building computers and repairing them, and with him here to help out i am able to go and work some to help pull my weight, i have 4 living sisters, all who seem to be pleased that im here, seems none of them were able to throw away all there belongings to be here when mom needed them, hell it was only stuff to me tho, and i know i can always get more stuff, hahah, what i cant get is another mom. ohhh yeah i have 1 true friend in life aswell, he comes to pick me up so i can help him build his auto shop in south georgia, its a building over 100 years old and we converted it into a auto shop, no easy task i may add, we kept it in the historic scocity followed all the guide lines as to make sure the restrations were not taking away from all the beauty and artistic work the masters of the 1800 did, ohhh yeah too what ever money my friend gives me i give it to my mom and my son, i gave my life to jesus , and i go where he leads me, he takes good care of my needs too i may add, i trust him with my very life. if im a mooch for trying to take care of my mom then so be it. so all you will hear from me at this time is stay there and help your mom and dad if your heart tells you too. and let those who do not like it be unhappy till your nolonger needed there. i know i would, i really do not give a damn what any man or woman think about me, i know me almost as good as god knows me.
Afraid,
I am the only one living with my parents here in my entire county in southern Idaho. I know this because when I had the nerve to apply for food stamps, they told me so. The county insists I work part-time. They always bring up the subject that I have placed myself in a severe financial bind. I'm glad to hear that your sisters are pleased that you are there. My situation is a little different. My sister lives alone, three miles away. She has her own home and yard. It is very important to her that she doesn't live here. Both of my brothers are married. Their wives, my sisters-in-law, are concerned that I am going to inherit the house and leave them with nothing. I got in trouble here on the message board because Easter came the same weekend as the World Championship in figure skating. I have inherited the problem of being hostess at all family gatherings. Do you have that problem, too? When my sister and her family show up, they are important company. My sister expects to be waited on. I am supposed to forget that Johnny Weir is in second place after the short program and listen to all her problems. She has a whole bunch. Sometimes, she does politely ask me what I am doing. We have had rows because she is not interested in the things I am interested in. Normally, I tell her I am fine.
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