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March 27, 2008, 11:25 am PDT
 Quote From: derevna33
Afraid,
I am the only one living with my parents here in my entire county in southern Idaho. I know this because when I had the nerve to apply for food stamps, they told me so. The county insists I work part-time. They always bring up the subject that I have placed myself in a severe financial bind. I'm glad to hear that your sisters are pleased that you are there. My situation is a little different. My sister lives alone, three miles away. She has her own home and yard. It is very important to her that she doesn't live here. Both of my brothers are married. Their wives, my sisters-in-law, are concerned that I am going to inherit the house and leave them with nothing. I got in trouble here on the message board because Easter came the same weekend as the World Championship in figure skating. I have inherited the problem of being hostess at all family gatherings. Do you have that problem, too? When my sister and her family show up, they are important company. My sister expects to be waited on. I am supposed to forget that Johnny Weir is in second place after the short program and listen to all her problems. She has a whole bunch. Sometimes, she does politely ask me what I am doing. We have had rows because she is not interested in the things I am interested in. Normally, I tell her I am fine.
OHHH HELL YEAH, but you know what i do i let all my sisters wait on them selves if they want to eat or drink, but i do clean up behind them after the meals here at moms house, the funny thing is one of my sisters lives about 3 miles from here as well lol, and couldn't find the time to come over and check on mom while she was down and out from kemo, such a loving bunch of sisters i have hahahahaha, the only thing they were really after here was the hopes of cashing in on there inheritance lol but i love them all just the same, i took all my belongings to a flea market and sold them for my son to have the money to buy his grandma something for christmas the first year i was here with her, he wanted his own money, and i really didnt need the stuff no how, it was just stuff but it served a good purpose for him lol, your parents are lucky to have some one with a heart like yours to take care of them in there golden years, and to hell with what people think as long as your doing what you can to help them. the world needs more love like that. what i do when family comes over for renuions is get on the computer and play a game called runescape, it helps me work out my flustrations in a healthy manner, you should try it, it really helps me i promice you, dont know if the mods will allow this but its at a site called runescape.com its a world compention game and really fun. it helps me pass the many hours i had to stay indoors to wait on mom, for a while she was not able to get out of bed to get to the restroom with out help in getting there. |
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