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March 27, 2008, 12:22 pm PDT
You are right!!
Quote From: cndrllaPeople can only do to you what you allow them to do!!
If you let these moochers back into your home again for even ONE DAY, then you are beyond stupid and deserve whatever you get. No one can "refuse" to leave; it's your house. Throw them and their crap right out the door, shut and lock it and call the police if they don't move on down the road! The best solution, of course, is to not to allow them in your home in the first place!
Simple. You are 100% right. Our situation was one we made and the fault lies with us. I guess my main point is that the emotional blackmail relatives can put you through (ie: you will never see us or the kids again) is likely a lot of bluster and standing your ground can acutally be the best thing for all involved.
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