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April 1, 2008, 5:42 am PDT

04/03 Perfectionist Moms

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Exorcism?  HAHA!  I am suprised my mom didn't request that.  I have several tattoos and she thinks because of them I have invited satan into my family.  I have done so many things that she thinks will reserve my spot in hell!  I have to laugh now when I think about it all.  Our poor dads are in a bad position.  No one would believe all the things she has done to me either.  She puts on a great mask for the rest of the world.  My husband and best friend see it all and they almost get more upset about it than I do.  They are great support for the things she still does to me.  How sad that we feel obligated to lie to protect them; they don't try to protect us.  Typical is abuse relationships - I consider my relationship with her to be emotionally and verbally abusive.

 

     Exorcism.  That's what the priest told me.  He apologized, profusely.  When the priest told Mom that I was not possessed by the devil,  Mom changed religions. 

    I have come to believe she has a personality disorder and she will never get any better.  I have  lowered my hopes for our relationship.  It is the way things are, and she goes blithely off in her own little world.  Like you, this set me up for a great deal of unhappiness.  I hope that the young lady in the program learns that her mother is never going to change.      

 


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