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October 12, 2005, 7:00 pm PDT
Betrayal
Quote From: helena309i was friends with this girl named lea and i had a bf we were all in the 4th grade you know we all had fun together and one-day i was at school and my boyfriend said he was sick so he couldnt come so i said ok ill have lea to drop off your homework because ill be after school.so he says ok.so it was at least 5:30 and i came home from after school so i started wlking towards his house just to she if he was feeling better and when i opened the door all i heard was i love you so much so i went around the corner to the bedroom and opened the door and i saw my best friend and my boyfriend making out and doing other stuff too.so i jumped right on them and strated fighting and they were like give me a chance so i did and all they were saying was a bunch of lies so i dumped him and never spoke to my friend again.was i right for that? 4th grade is TOO young to be even thinking about making out!!! Now, I can see how and why you would be upset about this happening and they certainly were not true friends to you but 4th grade! at that age, kids are immature and don't think before they act most of the time. How old are you now and do you still see these two? I am assuming that by now you have probably dated some and have developed new friendships and I think you need to not hold grudges especially since you were all so young, definetly should not have been fighting over something like this, just too young to be thinking about it. What are they like now? I believe in being true to people but I also believe in forgiving one another as no one is perfect, you must follow your heart, yes, you had the right to be upset and all but maybe it is time to forgive and get on with life. 4th graders know absolutely nothing about dating and true committment and I say becasue you were all so young, maybe it is just time to admit that kids do crazy things and hopefully ALL of you have learned lessons through this especially about true and honest friendships and what it means to committ to some one.
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